Respect

Respect is one of those things that can be so strong yet so fragile. It takes years to be fostered but can be extinguished within moments. Respect is something that is earned, not given. There are many people in my life that I have grown to respect because they exemplify some of the traits that I admire most. Humility, compassion, ingenuity, and fortitude are some of those chief traits. Being able to put your pride aside and recognize your own shortcomings is a rare attribute that I deeply admire. Putting the needs of others before your own needs, especially when the temptation to do the opposite is incredibly strong is something that will always earn my respect. Being able to look at a trying situation from a different angle and being able to use the limited resources you have in order to create something great out of an otherwise dead end situation will always earn my respect. Showing the moral strength to overcome adversity will always earn my respect. These traits are rare but when I see them, it quickly grows admiration in my mind. Earning respect isn't just about accomplishing difficult tasks, it's about reciprocating respect in order to foster a mutual appreciation of the kind of people that we have grown to be. I'm not sure if I'm a person that deserves respect. There are times when I have met my own criteria of respect, but there have also been times when I have shown weakness of character that I am ashamed to admit. Maybe that humility in and of itself is worthy of admiration but that isn't up to me to decide. What is worthy of respect is defined by the individual who feels so inclined to give it. My definition of what is worthy of respect is undoubtedly different from that of others but we all know that there are universal traits that we as a society deem worthy of honor and admiration. Those traits aren't easy to attain, but when they are gained, they don't wither easily. Respect is earned through time and effort. Respect is earned through strength of character and diligence. Respect for another will undoubtedly earn respect in return but only through sincerity. I'm sure there are people who believe I am worthy of respect, just as I know for a fact that there are others who don't believe I am worthy of it. The only thing one can do is to do everything they can to better themselves in every aspect of their character and know that respect will come along with that. Respect is for those who have earned it, not those who demand it.